"Last December,
my daughter Pat presented me with a unique gift to chronicle my life history -
Cherished Memories, The Story of My Life. At first I hesitated to unravel an often
fragile and at times difficult past. However, my worries soon vanished. I was
not only able to recollect my life story in my own time and in my own style, but
to experience a closer and stronger bond that now exists between my children and
me.
My daughter, Pat started interviewing
me every Saturday and we soon affectionately called this day our "Cherished
Memories" day. Many times, we would start to reminisce about our lives apart
and now together again which typically lead into a story about my early days in
war torn Europe, or coming to America with two very young children and another
child on the way. We cried together when I recalled my youth spent fleeing to
other countries with my mother and all 5 of us children under the age of 10. Other
times, my daughter and I would be drawn together when both of us recollected the
community's kindness and generosity when I was given 1 year to live while carrying
Pat's youngest sister. I had no idea that my 48-year-old would remember herself
at 6-years-old jumping up and down with glee when I came home from the hospital
and then following me everywhere in the house!
But Cherished Memories, The
Story of My Life also helped me capture the very happy and sometimes very funny
times in my life. On my birthday night all of my children and I laughed uncontrollably
when we remember how Pepee, the family's parrot broke loose and how my husband
tried to put him back in his cage
for two straight hours! These stories now
remind me and my children how unique our lives were and to celebrate the events
that made us stronger and now eventually closer.
I would not trade the richness
and wealth that Cherished Memories gave me to present to my own children. All
four of my kids now clamor for stories from the past and love to read about their
grandparents, aunts and uncles. They also now understand why I hold some pictures
near and dear to me --- especially the only one taken with my mother, sisters
and brothers. I treasure this picture the same way I now treasure all my precious
memories. I often receive calls from my kids telling me their recollections and
how they now hold dearly the moments in their life that were filled with joy and
at times sorrow. Cherished Memories, The Story of My Life is now my favorite and
my children's favorite book that not only serves as a personal memoir, but as
a blueprint of an entire character that can be passed down generation-to-generation.
I'm buying 2 more binders
to give to dear friends at church who want to interview their parents. God bless
you for this wonderful product!
You have my permission to share this letter
with others who might consider taking the time to interview their parents."
Ruth
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